Are you pregnant and trying to decide what to do? Abortion and parenting are the most commonly discussed options. There is a third option. That option is adoption. There are three types of adoption: open, semi-open, and closed.
Adoption provides an opportunity to continue pursuing the life goals and dreams you have. Adoption is an opportunity to move forward with your life while also seeing your child live out their potential in the family you choose for them.
When you are considering an adoption plan, understand you do have options! Some choose to have an open adoption where they can stay connected. Others choose to have a closed adoption where all information on both sides is completely confidential. Others may choose a mixture of both, called a semi-open adoption.
What is an open adoption?
An open adoption is one in which there is an open relationship during the pregnancy and following the birth. You will be able to determine how much information or communication you may want with your child and the adoptive family long term.
The adoptive parents may send you pictures or letters or even have special visits. You determine the type of communication you want during the adoption process.
Is an open adoption co-parenting?
No, an open adoption is different than co-parenting. Adoption is where you sign over the parental rights to another family, the family of your choosing.
How do I know which type of adoption is right for me?
The type of adoption you prefer is based on how much and how often you would like information or visits with your child once the adoption is complete.
Ultimately, you’re in control.
Adoption is an amazing and brave alternative to an abortion or parenting when you aren’t ready. It can be a beautiful journey for both birth and adoptive families.
The most empowering part is that you are in control. With adoption:
- You focus on your needs.
- You pick the type of adoption and family you are most comfortable with.
- You get support as many adoption agencies have lifetime counseling for birth mothers.
- You can have peace of mind for optimal mental health.
- You can have all your medical expenses met.
Learn more about semi-open adoption and closed adoption on our website.
You can also learn more about other brave mothers who made an adoption plan at bravelove.org.